So it's 40 minutes past the stipulated time and the fucker still hasn't arrived to fix my new cable tv. Can't believe I actually waited up for it but all that effort is all beginning to seem in vain. All this because everyone else has to be out and me, working on the graveyard shift, can be counted on.
I find it quite an amazing feat that despite all these years of fighting for sexual equality or equality of the sexes, things are actually still status quo. Girls can attention from all the guys for doing "guyish" things. But for guys, the level of attention for girls remains stagnant no matter how many manly things they do. Well, there will be a change in the level of attention if a guy starts to do "girlish" things albeit it's a downward one.
It's the same for looks. All girls have to do is to not eat like a pig. For guys, it's really a lot of hardwork! I mean I am up for equality in the sense that everyone equally benefits for the same amount of work that they do. But all that talk about women's rights and all is beginning to seem like bullshit to me. All I can say is that we had it coming and the older generation must be smirking away, even in their graves.
Well, there is only one exception though. Sexual attention. If the fight was so that women won't get raped or sexually harassed, especially at work, well I am definitely all out for it. Other than that it's just nonsense. 2 years of our lives wasted has been translated into a higher pay for all guys, albeit it is a really insignificant amount. Most people are ok with it but there are many who think that this is inequality and injustice at its very best. We men grow weary arguing about it, about no matter how much they can try to compensate us, it will never make up to the amount of sacrifice we have all put in just so that people can go on griping about how unfair it is that guys have more pay than women just because they served NS. Brothers, they will never understand. But it's because we continue to do what we do, that's why they remain that way.
Think about it, when has any guy come out from an argument with his partner successful? If a woman can't beat his man with logic, they'd simply use guilt to do it. Things have to be done by her rules else all hell, in any for, awaits. This has happened throughout known time. Its only a win-win situation if he simply agrees with her and move on with life.
Somehow, I'm beginning to think that sexual equality is just a ploy to make things explicit- that women have always been the dominator and men the dominated. It's about how you negotiate through the treacherous path to winning eventually. Time somehow helps out with that for him to eventually make it clear to her that he was right after all.
Women have another powerful weapon against men- withholding sex. When they do, men have no choice but to give in to her demands in order to get it. But when men do the same, well, lets just say that more often than not, it's the end of their relationship. They would simply go on to find another.
I agree that some of my views are quite extreme but nevertheless they are not flawed. This is based through all the experiences that I have as well as literature, in any form, that I have encountered.
But religious texts have taught us men how to treat women. It's right for us all to treat them with the only way as we should- righteously. Perhaps it's time for women to treat men the same way too.
