The dream that I had last night was rather peculiar yet pleasing. It's about things in my life that never changes-Rugby and The Army. Those two things provided me with bittersweet memories and are still burning me with them as new memories pile up onto each other. Because of those two, I am proud to say that that is how I am who I am today and where I am today. (How I am today is a different story because injuries do pile up too). Perhaps, this answers the question as to why I do bother so much with it(or rather them)-

That said, I just watched a Rugby film on a random basis. Based on a true story, I am suddenly filled with this insatiable thirst of desire. FTW!

It's not about rugby, it's about young men. It's not about building a championship team, it's about building championship boys, boys who will be FOREVER STRONG
-Larry Gelwix

It's funny how you can sometimes stumble onto songs that somehow reflects how things are for you at the moment

If it means a lot to you

Never have I wished so hard in my life for that every sms/calls received would be from you...

Today, a mother saw how broken hearted her son is.
This stupid son of hers, wished he would have never done what he did.
He wished that he would have just followed his heart instead of listening to his stubborn (stupid)head.
He wished that he would have trusted his instincts more.
He wished that he could have taken back everything and make things right again.
He wished that things never turned out this way.
He wished that he could go back in time to before the 1st of October or maybe perhaps the 15th of July.
He wishes that with each trip he makes on his bike, he would go through some time portal that would bring him back in time.

If only you knew...
If only I had known...

I can't help but to wonder, "who reads my blog?". I'm sure it goes without saying to anyone who writes on a regular basis on any blog site. Besides those who commented on the CBOX(so far, there's only one guy who does it), I have no clue on who reads. Perhaps, its time I do something about it? Ahh...it's just a random thought that just hit me. 

Speaking of things hitting me, I just got hit by bird shit in the morning. I was sitting at the carpark, going about my own business doing my pre-ride ritual when suddenly SPLAT! A bird shit landed nicely on my left calf. IT must have eaten papaya or something or probably was having diarrhea because of its color. Guess I should be getting something from lady luck pretty soon then with regards to popular beliefs. Then again, maybe not? It seems that I have been a prime target for birds lately. The last time it happened, I only noticed after I parked my bike. Again, on my left leg(the thigh). That must have been one pro bird as it was able to hit me on the move. Must have been a bomber in the previous life or something.

Should I be lamenting on how great my day was yesterday? Though it was cut short, it was indeed the highlight that I was looking forward to. Hopefully, just maybe, it can happen again SOOOOOON. Hehs. In addition to that, I received a comment about my forehead. IT was said to be high and hence people with high foreheads tend to think a lot. I do admit that I am sometimes lost in my own thoughts but when it comes to articulating it, that's another different story. By the time I am FINALLY some place to pen it all down, 9/10th of it would already be lost. Hence, when you do read here tends to be mostly gibberish. So far, only a few people are able to read what is going through my mind and rather, what went through it. 

On another point, Reversi has been sort of an addiction for me. Besides it being an almost no brainer game, well, actually, that was just it. Let's try something else which tests my patience and see how good I can be in looking at fine details and to discover discrepancies- if there are any.  

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZZm3d4J-7PI

I'm having mixed feelings about today. The day began really awesome. Kite flying really taught me something. No, it's not like I had it all planned out to begin with. It just dawned upon me as the kite went higher and higher. I know I scared you with that, but thoughts do come to me at the randomest moments.

Tugging/pulling back and letting go-its all part of the deal. There is always an anchor point for without one, being carefree becomes merely careless. Carelessness causes you to crash-violently sometimes. Having an anchor means that you come down smoothly and safely and that there is someone at the end of the line to catch you. ALWAYS.

Alas, the day was cut short. Candies, Hello Kitty, Ice-cream and magic hour had to be done without. I was disappointed. But I do understand why it has to be that way. No point retaliating. It would only make things go worse. But......

Anyway, I do look forward to such days. It's like every Sunday which I look forward to during my Army days. Monday would come, and I'd look forward to the next Sunday. My NS went by soooooooo fast that way..(:

How I wished you were there just now..

It seems like its getting harder and harder to keep myself distracted. My faith in things are waning as I sink deeper and deeper into this hell hole. So far, nothing has been going great. The semester went down the drain. I made the person that I've truly ever loved so hurt, that the mere thought of me hurts her the most. In return for that, now it hurts so much to realize what I'm doing. I guess I am getting what I've deserved. I shall receive this punishment willingly.

I guess I have been pushing hard for things to happen. Perhaps its just me. I have been pushing hard for things all my life. It's called effort. Nothing has ever happened to me because of luck. Everything that has happened to me is all because of the determined effort that I've put in in either work or pleasure. Nothing has been left to chance for me because I am someone who believes strongly in taking matters into my own hands. That said, do rest assured that it has no negative connotations.

Then again, that is no excuse for what I did. I should have saw it coming. No matter how much I've longed for you, I should be able to control myself. But i failed-epically.

All I ever needed is you. That is all I have to say. Believe when I say that what I did, was and still is for you own good. Because being humans, we all need reminders sometimes. Even me.

I'd do anything to be in ur arms once again

FUBAR

Never have I felt this way. Simply put it, things are FUBAR at the moment. Yes, it is beyond all recognition. You know its like that when calls go unanswered, and smses goes unreplied. I feel all flustered up and agitated. I think the best remedy for this would be pain: either causing or receiving. No matter what, the amount of pain caused or received simply cannot be compared to what it is right now-FUBAR.

Thinking that a long ride would help, especially one in the rain, it actually didn't! Thinking that sleeping it off might help, well, it didn't! Thinking smoking would help, well, it gave me a sense of release. But after all that, it's back to square one.

There's a song titled " Good to know that I ever needed attention all I have to do is die". Well, I was playing along those lines lately. But it seems that nobody dares to crash into me. There's a law which goes, " the longer im on the road, the higher the chances of a mishap happening to me". Well, I didn't come up with that; some riding/driving instructor did. But so far, I suppose, that is not meant to happen to me.

There's is probably a million and one question running through me head. No, its not that I don't trust you, its just that I have no clue what is going on right now. I am powerless in all that has been happening. Powerlessness breeds bossiness. I apologize for doing what I'm doing. It's like what I told you just now-it has not changed since.

I suck, I really do. I don't know why I allow myself to feel or be this way. For the first time in my life, this is something that I have no control about. You waived off all my confidence and all that that is me. Its the kind of confidence that I have and take it with me in facing all my adversities. The kind that cannot be talked about as much as I would like to as of my other challenges. The kind that isn't reported, documented or damned if remembered. I guess this time, the adversity is bigger than ever. The toughest I'm facing. Tougher than scaling a mountain deemed impassable but scaled anyway.

Even what I'm saying here doesn't make sense at all. Like the page says, blabberbutt- I'm just blabbering here: not making sense at all. Perhaps I have lost all senses as of now.

A very small degree of hope is sufficient to cause the birth of love

It is wrong to think that love comes from long companionship and persevering courtship. Love is the offspring of spiritual affinity and unless that affinity is created in a moment, it will not be created for years or even generations

Kahlil Gibran

Today was the one of those days of day. No matter what I did, I just couldn't get myself to be motivated in what I was doing or what I wanted to do for that matter. I just simply wasted petrol on going to the gym in school and practically just fooled around. Wasn't productive at all. It really makes me wonder why do I let myself feel or be this way. Seriously. Like the saying goes-it is the mind that wills the body. I guess today is one of those days that the mind hasn't the will to do anything. Perhaps, the mind isn't present even at this very moment.

Perhaps it's this sense of emptiness that I am feeling at this moment. Void breeds boredom, boredom breeds contempt and contempt, well it manifests itself to many other things that affects. It slows me down-literally. In fact, I'm beginning to think that even a drunkard can think more clearly (I am more conscious than ever about this "more" thing) than this.

What is wrong with me? Well, I have no answers to that. Seriously. Is it in human nature to be this way? To be affected by emotions? Is this the price to pay for being human? Well, if it is, than I bet this is just the tip of the iceberg.

I think I'll need to keep myself occupied till just then.

Random Mandom

The past week has been rather of a bore to me. As I've said before, there's really nothing much to look forward to. I spend all day doing practically nothing. Well, save for a few things that is. So, this is how my routine goes.

Every morning, I'll head to the gym at school. After a couple of hours there(and a full KG lost due to water weight lost), I'd head over to the canteen at NIE for lunch. Lately, lunch has always been YTF. Thursday's YTF was especially expensive as it costs me $4.80 which got me to wonder- what the hell did I put in there? I don't know if I'm doing in consciously or not but I have been eating healthy this past week. Literally. It'll be YTF, followed by two slices of fruits of any kind and also a banana. Gray juice would be nice too but i was in the mood for one.

After lunch would be home for me. Yeah. I'd be watching(or rather re-watching) shows that I've already seen probably a million times. Oh yes! Boredom got the better of me because I've been polishing my boots just for next week's briefing. It's something that (I bet) no one ever does. YES! That was how bored I was. And to top it off, when I'm usually doing that, I'd be watching some army/war movie. Hahaha. The last one I watched was Joyeux Noel. It's about the Christmas of 1914 and how the troops in the trenches spent it. You should watch it really. It's nothing war-ish cept for the few artillery bombardments. Instead, its really about the human spirit and how easily we are the put away our differences for the common good. PLUS! The day before (while polishing my boots again...), I had uncovered Singapore's greatest treasure right in the comfort of my own home: Army Daze! THAT WAS SIMPLY AWESOME!!! Even after years and years of watching that show, it never ceases to captivate me. I'm pretty sure that it would also captivate you especially to watch on a lazy afternoon.

The boredom was especially bad yesterday that I felt the need to do something random. So, after doing my dusk prayers, I left the house prepared for any sort of occasion. 20 minutes later, I found myself in Yishun. How I ended there was the result of traffic lights turning green. Yeah, that is how i do my Random Riding(if I was driving then it would be RD). I'd zoom off towards any direction which the traffic light points green. It sounds dumb, yes, but only to others. Sometimes, riding for the sake of riding is a lot better as you'd have no worries about being late and all.

Anyway, since I was in Yishun, I decided to catch a movie. I couldn't watch Planet 51 just yet as I already promised someone. So I went to watch Rocket Singh. Initially, I thought it was going to be those Indian-brit shows or something. Kinda like Bend it Like Beckham or Slum dog Millionaire. Turns out, it WASNT! Hahahahahha. The whole theater was filled with Indians. Well, being 1/8 of an Indian means that I'm not the odd one out. Maybe 7/8 odd out. But not 1 whole. Hehs. But, I wasn't disappointed. The movie was awesome! Seriously. Okay, maybe I was just frustrated because I sat next to a Fat guy who seems to be needing an entire row just to squeeze his HUGE butt comfortably. He kept eating and eating and eating. I think he had 3 BK burgers throughout the entire movie. To top it all off, HE STUNK! Seriously. Do all fat people stink? Maybe just a few. I have a couple of fatties as friends and they don't smell too bad. Maybe because the smell of ciggies covers it all up? Nah..they don't stink at all. Well, maybe they're just a minority. Anyway, awesome movie!

12/12/09. It's finally here. Saturday. AKA match day. Today, it's going to be a little bit special. We're playing at the Padang. So for two whole hours after kick off at 3.30pm, I'm going to pretend that the whole of Singapore came down to watch me play(by just passing by) and play extra special today. Hahaha..those old farts will never know what hit them.

One of the worst things in life is not how nasty the nasty people can be. You already know that. It's how nasty the nice people can be.

I'm now $150 poorer after yesterday. Yes, it's not THAT much to some but it IS to others. I went to JB just to get my bike serviced and guess what? The piston's all burned out. Literally. It's all charred up. Something that was something so shiny and silver looked like a metallic charcoal. Well, long story short, I had it changed and now, for the next 970km, I can only run my bike at 70-80km/h. THAT IS VERY SLOW! Considering the fact that my normal speed would run around 100km/h as of lately. Oh well, guess its high time my friends leave me behind on the road as how I would usually do to them. Yet, yesterday, I left Jo far behind. Riding at 70km/h on BKE, I still did not spot him catching up nor even behind me.

This morning, on the way home from running morning errands, I spotted 3 mats on a bike. Yeah...bicycle. They had it shaped like a kapcai bike and were making a lot of noises on the way to god knows where. Anyway, it isn't the first time I've spotted things like that. Apparently, its an in thing now for mats to do so. Have their bicycles shaped like that kind of bike. I can only wonder to myself: what is the matter with these kids?

For the uninformed, a kapcai bike is the one that you can normally find on the road. It's widely popular among Malaysians and the local Malay boys. Its the kind with no fuel tank in front so they have basically nothing to grip on to with their legs. As of lately, they've (the mats) have been trying to make it all look so cool by making it look like a sports bike(why not get a sports bike in the first place?). One of the reasons why it is a hit is because it is SO cheap. $4k can settle you for a first hand bike(machine price).

Back to those bicyclemats. Well, they have them shaped like that so it got me to wonder: is that what they aspire to have? Is their their ultimate goal in life? To have that kind of bike? Well, if that is so, its either that they have very poor imagination(hence unable to dream dreams) or that they are easily contented(got bike can already).

Either way, it's kind of sad what these mats have been up to lately. I have had friends who have quit studying just because they could not find the interest in doing it. Well, to me, that is just one lousy excuse for saying that they are performing poorly. If you want to say so, then you have to meet one criteria: YOU ACTUALLY HAVE TO BE PERFORMING TO BEGIN WITH. Only with that, do you have the right to say that you no longer have interest in studying. Can you imagine? Left school at the age of 14-15. It's not like they are hardworking either. Well, that's one of the reasons why they left school at such a young age. They rather sit under the block till wee hours in the morning(and in the process disturbing the peace of the neighborhood) and, well, do nothing really everyday then to go to work. YES!! These are my personal(and casual) observations. If you do not agree with this, by all means: DISAGREE!

To them, I suppose, life can be quite simple. Bored: Lepak. Having a bit of cash on their hands: Spend them all. Horny: find a secluded staircase. The list goes on really. But one thing that's got me fuming, has it always been like this? Or this is a degradation of what used to be? I don't know. All I know is that every night, without fail, a group of them will sit under my block and sputter nothing but nonsense the night through. It's like, they don't have a life or something.

It's absurd to divide people into good or bad. People are either charming or tedious.

Some stupid bird decided to dump its dung on me while i was riding home. Thanks alot birdie. Well, these past few days have been rather..mundane for me. Yes. Mundane is the correct word for me to use. There hasn't been anything to look forward to lately. My writings are up to standard too. I haven't had the inspiration to write something worth reading. Well, in order for me to be inspired, I have to be pissed. Right now, its just a void feeling for me. Yes, I guess there really isn't anything to look forward to.

Last weekend was rather okay. After being relegated and benched for my poor performance at training, I was finally subbed in in the second half. Not a moment to soon, I scored a try for the team thus turning the tide of the game. No, I am not boasting but I seriously turned the tide of the game albeit it was a tycoo(is this how it's spelled?) try. We were trailing behind Bucks until I came in. Awesome try. But seriously, I thought the referee blew the whistle and I was just being nice enough to retrieve the ball. When i realized that there were 3 big white guys chasing after me, that's when i made a dash for the try line. HOOWAH! Scored my first try of the season.

Alright, that was Saturday. Sunday was a little bit lazy for me. I went out in the morning to carry out a project of mine. A project which hopefully will be completed by June next year. 5 mins upon reaching home, my friends jio-ed me for a LAN-gaming session. Yeah, Parklane Mall has some of the best computers around to game for hours on end. We sat our assess down and our eyes glued to the screen to Left 4 Dead:2. Yeah. IT'S THE MOST AWESOME-EST GAME TO DATE!!! Blasting zombies around for 5 hours straight left us mindfucked and hungry. Dinner at beach road concluded the day as I am still dazed by the 5 hours experience.

Yesterday was no different. Nothing to look forward to. Well, gymmed and run in the morning left me with nothing to do in the afternoon except to rot at home. Well, morning at the school's gym was rather something. A few Viet-cong students were there. And yes, there were absolutely terrible at gym etiquette. Walked around with no shoes and towel, they left their sweat all on the benches without having the slightest bit of courtesy to wipe it clean so that the next person can use it without any feelings of disgust. Then, there was this guy. Each time he finished a "set" he'd go up to the mirror to check out how "big" his arms were. Hahahahahaha! Even my bottle of mineral water looked bigger than that. Heck, he was basically showing off his chopstick arms around to whoever wanted to see it. I stared at him and his antics and sniggered all the way through. HE SAW THAT I WAS RIDICULING HIM. But he continued doing it anyway. What an idiot. People like that makes one's experience at the gym a horrible one. Seriously. Wish somebody could do something to people like that. Like setting up a gym for the vain, gay and noobs who are all in it just to build muscle just so that they would look nice. Seriously, they're wasting space and clogging up the air inside with their stupidity(and their awful stink. What the hell do they eat anyway?)

Like i said, there was nothing for me to do after getting home.Then, training at the Padang got cancelled all thanks to the StanChart Marathon the day before. So, I was left with nothing to do but this...

Yeah...armed my self with a bottle of coke, a bag of chips and a packet of M&Ms, I went down to this favorite spot of mine and sat there for an hour. Disappointingly , the seat next to me was empty. Well, that's not a first to begin with. Maybe, for the next few magic hours, the seat next to me will continually be left empty? Hmm....not that im sad or emo-ing about it. But it would be nice to have someone to sit next to and talk to instead of just being silent through it all.

Well, I guess this holidays are filled with nothingness so i shall continue to train. Hehs, i am losing body fats(finally)! But my weight has been progressively increasing. With fat loss, i am assured that the weight that im putting on is nothing but muscle mass(not that I intend to gain any but if I do that's good I guess). Supplements that I am taking are helping to train harder and longer. Well, except today. I seriously had no motivation to train today so I just slip-shotly went through my program, run and then left for home. I have no idea why I am so lazy today. Oh wells. Anyway, those supplements that I am taking are leaving me seriously hungry at the end of each session. Heck, I even almost fainted once due to lack of sugar in my blood. Damn, big weights, big eats.

Well, hopefully, something comes up or along so that I finally have something to look forward to once again.

The good things about procrastination is that you always have something planned for tomorrow.

I guess relegation comes naturally to me. Well, not naturally in a sense that I am all accepting it wholly. But naturally as in consistency. Hmm...maybe I should use consistently instead...not that it matters much anyway.

So I've been told that I am going to be playing in the 2nd team from here onwards until my tackling actually improves. Very well done. Is it really in human nature to spot only the mistakes that one commits? What about the rest of the time that everything was done perfectly? Out of the 99%, the only time i was observed was the 1% and that was when the mistake occurred. This is simply FUBAR.

No matter, i shall stop bitching about it all. I know that i am better than that. Everyone knows that. On that day, I'll make sure that each and every tackle of mine will make the crowd go "whooooooooooooooooooooooa"

Guess that isn't the only department which I am being relegated in.

The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step, and a lot of bitchin'

As history repeats itself

Today was no exception to what happened 3 years ago. It was the night when I lost my "wife" in Taiwan. It was a big case and I was punished for it. I was sent to a place where no one in the right frame of mind wants to go. Memories or rather nightmares started to unfold itself in my mind as I zoomed off to go get it just now. 120km/h on Malaysian road is scary. But it was for the sake of me being able to return back to Singapore-legally.

The funny part was I was entirely calm through it all. The feeling was akin what I felt 3 years back. Normally, people would get all kancheong about it. But no, I was the calmest one amongst the company of thousands. Imagine this, I calmly went up to my c0mpany's OC(Officers in Command) and told him what happened. I couldn't believe that I actually laughed at him when he jumped! The laughter didn't last long as he lifted me off the ground and asked me where I last left it.

They say that those who are the calmest during a crisis are those who actually have no vivid imagination at all. Perhaps, it's just within me to remain at my calmest when trouble starts spewing it's ugly truth into my face. Impending death, impending prison, impending whatever...I have never been so calm before except to when those things(bad things) are real possibility.

No matter, I am still disappointed with myself for being so absent minded then and tonight. I guess I need to be extra careful with all that. Heck, I'm going to take the lessons that I've learnt. The important lesson learnt tonight is that if I have no passport, I cannot go home. Yeah...

It is the calm and silent water that drowns a man